I made this for my friends and to keep some memories written down for myself. So, enjot some stories about my fun and crazy life!
02/20/08: Water Fasting Before A Big Date
If you are trying to lose weight before a big date you might try water fasting. I tis not a permanent solution to weight loss but it can help you fit into that dress you want to wear at the last minute. Water fasting is not quite the same as taking all those toxic teas that can cause dehydration symptoms like dizziness, nausea, headache and stomach cramps. If you do water fasting properlty these things do not become a problem.
There are two big precautions that you should take before water fasting –
1. Do not fast on water alone as an all water fast release toxins too quickly causing headaches.
2. If water fasting is more than three days do it only under the supervision of a physician
3. To prepare for a fast eat only raw vegetables and fruits for two days prior to starting it. This will make the fast itself less of a shock to the system.
While on the fast consume at least eight ounce glasses of steam distilled water a day plus pure juices and up to tow cups of herbal tea a day. Dilute all juices with the water adding about 1 part water to three parts juice. Do not drink orange or tomato juice and avoid all juices made with sweeteners and other additives.
The best juice to use for a fast is the juice of one lemon to a cup of warm water. Fresh apple, beet, cabbage, carrot, celery and grape juices are also good as our “green drinks” made fresh or from a commercial powder.
If you are having problems with ulcers and your colon then try adding raw cabbage juice to the equation.
Herbal teas can be consumed once or twice a day while water fasting. These include Alfalfa, burdock, chamomile, dandelion, milk thistle, red clover and rose hips that cleanse the bloodstream and support the liver.
If you must have something to eat during the fast a piece of watermelon is permitted. You can also eat fresh applesauce that has been made in a food processor.
During the fast it is very common to experience a wide variety of symptoms as toxins are released from your body including fatigue, body odor, dry scaly skin, skin eruptions, headaches, dizziness, irritability, anxiety, confusion, nausea, coughing, diarrhea, dark urine, dark foul smelling stools, body aches, insomnia, sinus discharge and visual or hearing problems. If
Follow up the juice water and tea fast with a two-day diet of raw fruits and vegetables. This is because the desired effect could be ruined if you eat cooked foods right after the fast.
You can also take two capsules of garlic a day to promote healing in the colon, strengthen the blood and also get rid of parasites. Many people eliminate all sorts of parasites when they go on a fast.
Also be sure to take a fiber supplement on a daily basis before and after your fast but not during your fast.
There are two big precautions that you should take before water fasting –
1. Do not fast on water alone as an all water fast release toxins too quickly causing headaches.
2. If water fasting is more than three days do it only under the supervision of a physician
3. To prepare for a fast eat only raw vegetables and fruits for two days prior to starting it. This will make the fast itself less of a shock to the system.
While on the fast consume at least eight ounce glasses of steam distilled water a day plus pure juices and up to tow cups of herbal tea a day. Dilute all juices with the water adding about 1 part water to three parts juice. Do not drink orange or tomato juice and avoid all juices made with sweeteners and other additives.
The best juice to use for a fast is the juice of one lemon to a cup of warm water. Fresh apple, beet, cabbage, carrot, celery and grape juices are also good as our “green drinks” made fresh or from a commercial powder.
If you are having problems with ulcers and your colon then try adding raw cabbage juice to the equation.
Herbal teas can be consumed once or twice a day while water fasting. These include Alfalfa, burdock, chamomile, dandelion, milk thistle, red clover and rose hips that cleanse the bloodstream and support the liver.
If you must have something to eat during the fast a piece of watermelon is permitted. You can also eat fresh applesauce that has been made in a food processor.
During the fast it is very common to experience a wide variety of symptoms as toxins are released from your body including fatigue, body odor, dry scaly skin, skin eruptions, headaches, dizziness, irritability, anxiety, confusion, nausea, coughing, diarrhea, dark urine, dark foul smelling stools, body aches, insomnia, sinus discharge and visual or hearing problems. If
Follow up the juice water and tea fast with a two-day diet of raw fruits and vegetables. This is because the desired effect could be ruined if you eat cooked foods right after the fast.
You can also take two capsules of garlic a day to promote healing in the colon, strengthen the blood and also get rid of parasites. Many people eliminate all sorts of parasites when they go on a fast.
Also be sure to take a fiber supplement on a daily basis before and after your fast but not during your fast.
02/17/08: Remember You Are The Prize
When you are dating it is women that do not think much of themselves in the first place who lose. You need to believe that you already have a greater level of success before you even leave the house for a date. Unfortunately many women leave the house to go to a singles bar or try to find a date with this I am a loser mentality. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy because it is a turn off.
Girls tart acting like you’re invincible. In other words, you should be walking around like it’s already happening to you. Walk in like you own the place and if you’re not going to talk to men right away, then be committed to a conversation with a friend.
Men can’t stand it when you’re looking directly at a friend and talking and not scanning the room like every other guy. It makes you stand out. It builds attraction. They become jealous. It is something really Neanderthal and jealous in them that makes them want to be number one.
This means looking occupied and committed when you talk to men. Any men. This is so that by the time you interact with them they are already attracted. It is like shooting fish in a barrel. If you keep it fun short and firefly it will drive them even crazier. Before you know it men will start lining up to talk to you.
This is because you will be doing what most women can’t do because they are so desperate. Most other girls were looking around the room for targets – the single guy –when they wake in the room. All we did was have a committed conversation and have fun. No work, lots of return.
You saw how being friendly gets you everywhere and can turn any evening into an extraordinary one. Just by having this confidence and relaxed attitude, women will approach you and do all the work. If you’re friendly and ask questions you won’t have to worry about what to say next. They’ll do all the talking.
Remember, simple is better than complicated. “What’s up?” “What’s happening over here?”, “Why haven’t you called me?” or “I’m your dancer” always works better than a long, drawn out, story. It’s as if you’re not hitting on them. This causes them to lower their defenses and they don’t see you coming until they’re already attracted.
Act as if this is already your life. I can see it inside of you; it’s lying right below the surface. You deserve this life where men adore you, want you and must have you. The more that you maintain this sort of attitude which is very hard for women to do as we are taught from birth to be demure and to hang our heads and be shame based the more he is going to see you as exceptional and as a trophy that must be won.
Remember, you’re the prize!
02/14/08: Stop Saying You Are Fat
Ladies you are lying through your teeth all over the dating sites on the Internet again. Studies and first person anecdotes all over the web are saying that tons of women are claiming to be skinny when they are building like brick you know what houses. You are putting up pictures of yourself where you look really thin or even worse really old picots.
Many males say they feel like they are typical or shallow but they are sick of being fooled by women who say they are thin when really they are not. In fact misrepresenting your weight and body type has become a real art for some women. Why you would want to do this to them is a mystery to the men who do not appreciate the distortion of the facts especially when they are repulsed completely by big flabby women. They end up having to suffer through a date with you to be polite (and some do not even bother to do that.)
The problem seems to be with the automatic fill in fields in which you might be required to check a box that identifies your body type. All of these women represent themselves as “average” in size when really they are plus size. Some men go out on date after successive date with women who have said they are small framed or thin and have things hanging, bulging and drooping every where. Here’s a clue – if you have pouches of fat hanging over your kneecaps you are not “average.”
A male friend of mine was complaining about how some women were identifying average lately and I suggested to him that maybe there are a lot of women out there now that that thing 5 foot 4 at eighty pounds is the new average. Many men think about 5’7 and 130 pounds should be the average but this does not reflect how large American women have become in the past ten years.
Conversely women have the same problem only it is usually a man that lists their age as 25 when they are clearly in their mid thirties. Sometimes is really bad. You can see a chicken wattle beneath the man’s neck in his picture on his profile as he stands there wearing his white shoes next to his red corvette.
You know if you are a really fat woman there are many sites online that specialize in matching up plus size women with the men that adore them. Mostly these men are from Asian and Eastern cultures where a heavier woman is more adored. However this will spare you all the trouble of becoming emotionally upset when the man that thinks you are too fat rejects you.
Many males say they feel like they are typical or shallow but they are sick of being fooled by women who say they are thin when really they are not. In fact misrepresenting your weight and body type has become a real art for some women. Why you would want to do this to them is a mystery to the men who do not appreciate the distortion of the facts especially when they are repulsed completely by big flabby women. They end up having to suffer through a date with you to be polite (and some do not even bother to do that.)
The problem seems to be with the automatic fill in fields in which you might be required to check a box that identifies your body type. All of these women represent themselves as “average” in size when really they are plus size. Some men go out on date after successive date with women who have said they are small framed or thin and have things hanging, bulging and drooping every where. Here’s a clue – if you have pouches of fat hanging over your kneecaps you are not “average.”
A male friend of mine was complaining about how some women were identifying average lately and I suggested to him that maybe there are a lot of women out there now that that thing 5 foot 4 at eighty pounds is the new average. Many men think about 5’7 and 130 pounds should be the average but this does not reflect how large American women have become in the past ten years.
Conversely women have the same problem only it is usually a man that lists their age as 25 when they are clearly in their mid thirties. Sometimes is really bad. You can see a chicken wattle beneath the man’s neck in his picture on his profile as he stands there wearing his white shoes next to his red corvette.
You know if you are a really fat woman there are many sites online that specialize in matching up plus size women with the men that adore them. Mostly these men are from Asian and Eastern cultures where a heavier woman is more adored. However this will spare you all the trouble of becoming emotionally upset when the man that thinks you are too fat rejects you.
02/11/08: The Gay Guy In The Way
Gay guys have been given a lot of power lately. Look at all of the reality shows on television that allow them to choose our clothes for us, our food and how we dress and walk. It’s disgusting. Especially bad are those horrible gay experts that Tyra Banks has on America Top Model. I have never seen individuals so jealous of real women in their entire life.
The fact that gay men want to be us is why you should not bring one with you on a date or buddy up with one when you go to a bar. First of all they offer you a false sense of security and actually prevent you from walking around and mingling with other people. If you are talking to a gay guy he will always pump you up and reinforce any B.S. you might be thinking about anyone or anything. This is because he so desperately needs your approval. However this is not good for any learning curve when it comes to dating. You want to see things for how they really are and not through the eyes of someone who really does not care if you end up with someone or not and in fact thrives on the drama if you get rejected.
Another problem is that when straight men see you in the company of gay men they perceive you as being insecure. They see the gay guy as something that you need to put between you and intimacy. The gay guy is there to prevent you from having to deal with a real man like some kind of goalie. Most men will not bother trying to get by the gay “gate keeper” and all of his challenging behaviors. It is too much trouble. Basically in most men’s minds a woman who spends too much time with gay men is probably a lesbian in the closet and does not know it yet. I am not saying that it is true. I am just saying that is a common perception.
Another problem is that gay men usually teach you to dress badly. They have hideous taste and get a secret thrill if you look a litter wrecked after they are done dressing you. They want you to look like their mother, like Judy Garland or like them. Also they can be really hard on your self-esteem if you take them shopping with you. They can have trashy taste and also usually do not bite their tongues when it comes to telling you how bad you look in something.
In essence if you want to succeed in the straight world then don’t hang around in the gay world. Hang with straight people. I find it is best not to be so insecure when you are shopping or dating not to have to really on the opinion of any type of mentor. Mentors are for people who do not have the courage to know their own minds, what they want or their own taste.
So why do women do this? Is that they are lying no good cheaters who want to trick men into bed. Well, only partly. Mainly women put up dishonest profiles because they are afraid they will not get any responses at all. Men in the meantime think that an “average” woman should look at least as unattractive as Drew Barrymore and as attractive as Cindy Crawford. Unfortunately deprecations of the average woman in the movies do not represent what is actually out there.
The fact that gay men want to be us is why you should not bring one with you on a date or buddy up with one when you go to a bar. First of all they offer you a false sense of security and actually prevent you from walking around and mingling with other people. If you are talking to a gay guy he will always pump you up and reinforce any B.S. you might be thinking about anyone or anything. This is because he so desperately needs your approval. However this is not good for any learning curve when it comes to dating. You want to see things for how they really are and not through the eyes of someone who really does not care if you end up with someone or not and in fact thrives on the drama if you get rejected.
Another problem is that when straight men see you in the company of gay men they perceive you as being insecure. They see the gay guy as something that you need to put between you and intimacy. The gay guy is there to prevent you from having to deal with a real man like some kind of goalie. Most men will not bother trying to get by the gay “gate keeper” and all of his challenging behaviors. It is too much trouble. Basically in most men’s minds a woman who spends too much time with gay men is probably a lesbian in the closet and does not know it yet. I am not saying that it is true. I am just saying that is a common perception.
Another problem is that gay men usually teach you to dress badly. They have hideous taste and get a secret thrill if you look a litter wrecked after they are done dressing you. They want you to look like their mother, like Judy Garland or like them. Also they can be really hard on your self-esteem if you take them shopping with you. They can have trashy taste and also usually do not bite their tongues when it comes to telling you how bad you look in something.
In essence if you want to succeed in the straight world then don’t hang around in the gay world. Hang with straight people. I find it is best not to be so insecure when you are shopping or dating not to have to really on the opinion of any type of mentor. Mentors are for people who do not have the courage to know their own minds, what they want or their own taste.
So why do women do this? Is that they are lying no good cheaters who want to trick men into bed. Well, only partly. Mainly women put up dishonest profiles because they are afraid they will not get any responses at all. Men in the meantime think that an “average” woman should look at least as unattractive as Drew Barrymore and as attractive as Cindy Crawford. Unfortunately deprecations of the average woman in the movies do not represent what is actually out there.
02/08/08: Don't Let the Losers Get You Down
Whenever something bad happens to you; whether it is work related or relationship related do you spend the next few hours weeks or months beating yourself up about it? This is one way to make rejection form men way too important.
If a reject is work, social or relationship related; do you spend the next few hours, days, weeks, months (or a lifetime) beating yourself up about it? I have good news! You can stop being this way right now.
How?
Simple. Choose not to react in your old habitual ways. Stop your automatic tendency to make it all about you. It is not about you.
No one is holding a gun to your head. You can make the choice to NOT let bad things affect you and essentially give up this self-defeating behavior.
I know this will come as a complete surprise to some of you. I know it did for me. Look at your negative responses and how you continue to dwell on them and I think you’ll be shocked to learn that this serves no real purpose. Once you realize
this, then you can begin to reverse the process.
A guy friend recently told me a story that illustrates this point perfectly:
He walked up to a girl in a group and said,
“I saw you staring at me (she actually wasn’t) so
I thought I’d come over and introduce myself.”
She blew him off immediately. So, without missing
a beat, he turned to one of her friends and said,
“How are YOU doin?”
She says,
“Great”.
They talk for a minute, he takes her over to a couch and they start making out. A few minutes later, the girl who blew him off comes over, sits down and wants to have a group kiss…then they ask him to leave with them.
This is because women always want what other women want. I can tell you this is true because I have gone out with some real jerks and nobody has ever even looked twice at them until they have appeared on my arm. This is true of guys who are not good looking, guys with a lousy job and guys who stammer and stutter.
When you suffer from events that are beyond your control, it makes your suffering much worse if you regard yourself as a victim. Since most of your emotional experiences are the direct result of how you interpret and personalize the events in your own lives, the important factor is the skill with
Which you handle your own response. It’s your own choice how you respond.
The key is to revise your attitude to blame things more on the situation rather than take the entire rap yourself. Give yourself a break. You can’t help it if one guy is an arrogant jerk, the next one a sex addict and the one after that a non-committing type. Don’t make a drama out of each and every dating disaster and you will be much better off.
Try it and let me know what happens!
If a reject is work, social or relationship related; do you spend the next few hours, days, weeks, months (or a lifetime) beating yourself up about it? I have good news! You can stop being this way right now.
How?
Simple. Choose not to react in your old habitual ways. Stop your automatic tendency to make it all about you. It is not about you.
No one is holding a gun to your head. You can make the choice to NOT let bad things affect you and essentially give up this self-defeating behavior.
I know this will come as a complete surprise to some of you. I know it did for me. Look at your negative responses and how you continue to dwell on them and I think you’ll be shocked to learn that this serves no real purpose. Once you realize
this, then you can begin to reverse the process.
A guy friend recently told me a story that illustrates this point perfectly:
He walked up to a girl in a group and said,
“I saw you staring at me (she actually wasn’t) so
I thought I’d come over and introduce myself.”
She blew him off immediately. So, without missing
a beat, he turned to one of her friends and said,
“How are YOU doin?”
She says,
“Great”.
They talk for a minute, he takes her over to a couch and they start making out. A few minutes later, the girl who blew him off comes over, sits down and wants to have a group kiss…then they ask him to leave with them.
This is because women always want what other women want. I can tell you this is true because I have gone out with some real jerks and nobody has ever even looked twice at them until they have appeared on my arm. This is true of guys who are not good looking, guys with a lousy job and guys who stammer and stutter.
When you suffer from events that are beyond your control, it makes your suffering much worse if you regard yourself as a victim. Since most of your emotional experiences are the direct result of how you interpret and personalize the events in your own lives, the important factor is the skill with
Which you handle your own response. It’s your own choice how you respond.
The key is to revise your attitude to blame things more on the situation rather than take the entire rap yourself. Give yourself a break. You can’t help it if one guy is an arrogant jerk, the next one a sex addict and the one after that a non-committing type. Don’t make a drama out of each and every dating disaster and you will be much better off.
Try it and let me know what happens!
02/05/08: Making That Decision
Whether it’s something small like what shirt to buy or something big like what job to accept or whether or not to buy an expensive dress, does your internal dialogue sound something like this?
“Hmm, okay, which one will get me more en?”
If it does, then you’re going down a very dangerous road. Even if you have some success with this approach, you’ll be a slave to it for the rest of your life. You’re coming from a place of scarcity and your life is revolving around it.
If you keep doing what you’re doing you’ll keep getting what you’re getting…which is probably inconsistent success with men…at best!
Here’s how I make my decisions:
When I’m looking at new clothes, my decision to buy a particular item is NOT based on how much MORE I will get laid or how men might DIG it or how it might make a great conversation starter. I make the decision based on whether I LIKE it…period.
When I’m looking at a new car (my decision to buy is NOT based on whether men will think I’m doing well financially and want to sleep with me. I make the decision based on whether I LIKE it.
When I’m at a club, my decision to buy a lot of booze is NOT based on how many men I can lure over with free drinks, get drunk and trick I him to getting physical with me. I make the decision based on having a place to hang out and having drinks at my fingertips.
I think you get the idea.
Short of taking a shower, using deodorant and mouthwash, no decision you make should be based on whether the correct one will get men to like you MORE.
What I’m saying is that the next time you have a decision to make, it should be made based on how it’s going to please you as a person that likes herself or even himself is the most attractive to the opposite sex.
“Hmm, okay, which one will get me more en?”
If it does, then you’re going down a very dangerous road. Even if you have some success with this approach, you’ll be a slave to it for the rest of your life. You’re coming from a place of scarcity and your life is revolving around it.
If you keep doing what you’re doing you’ll keep getting what you’re getting…which is probably inconsistent success with men…at best!
Here’s how I make my decisions:
When I’m looking at new clothes, my decision to buy a particular item is NOT based on how much MORE I will get laid or how men might DIG it or how it might make a great conversation starter. I make the decision based on whether I LIKE it…period.
When I’m looking at a new car (my decision to buy is NOT based on whether men will think I’m doing well financially and want to sleep with me. I make the decision based on whether I LIKE it.
When I’m at a club, my decision to buy a lot of booze is NOT based on how many men I can lure over with free drinks, get drunk and trick I him to getting physical with me. I make the decision based on having a place to hang out and having drinks at my fingertips.
I think you get the idea.
Short of taking a shower, using deodorant and mouthwash, no decision you make should be based on whether the correct one will get men to like you MORE.
What I’m saying is that the next time you have a decision to make, it should be made based on how it’s going to please you as a person that likes herself or even himself is the most attractive to the opposite sex.
02/02/08: He's Not Ready For the Altar
I have a friend name Richard who is single and just wants to take it slow and get to know a person well before he has sex with them or considered marriage. Lately he tells me he is really overwhelmed by all the women he meets that want to have sex right away.
Richard has been doing the online dating thing for many months and he is trying to be cautious. He usually just asks them out for coffee or to hang out with him and his buddies and play pool. According to him that low key and friendly approach is having women perceive him as a family man. It might be because he is not that hot about having sex right away.
Women who get too close too soon and do things like mentally outfit them for the baby carrier and the wedding tux turn off men. Richard says this gets so bad that women try to drag him into domestic supply stores like Babies R US, Ikea and the Pottery Barn to see if he is husband material. He has also been taken into department stores where he has been subtly directed into the wedding gown sections (where one girl actually made him try to pick out bridesmaid dresses with him) and past the jeweler counter where the engagement rings are kept.
Richard’s message to women nowadays would be to “Relax Ladies. It’s called DATING. A man will let you know if he wants to marry you. He goes, buys a ring, gets down on his knees (well sometimes), asks you and then puts a ring on your finger. Before that day happens we are not to assume anything (according to Richard.)
It is not something that you can convince a guy to do no matter how rich your daddy is. Richard really made me laugh with some of his comments especially when he started singing – “You can’t hurry love, you just have to wait.” He is also quite fond of walking around spouting that fresher cliché “What is wrong with you. He is just not that into you!”
Richard is also sick of seeing dating profiles that are way too predictable online. They all look like they have been scooped out of the same Dating for Dummies book. He said that he is sick of reading about how a woman loves long walks, swimming and going to the movies. He is also sick of the “I can go from hiking boots to high heels in a flash” or “I am as comfortable in velvet as I am in denim.” He is also sick of women writing how they like to play pool with the boys only to find out that they can’t play at all. Still, I did point out that when the woman can’t play it gives him an ideal opportunity to put his arm around her.
So is Richard looking for a marriage partner? Yes he is he just has not found the right girl online yet.
Richard has been doing the online dating thing for many months and he is trying to be cautious. He usually just asks them out for coffee or to hang out with him and his buddies and play pool. According to him that low key and friendly approach is having women perceive him as a family man. It might be because he is not that hot about having sex right away.
Women who get too close too soon and do things like mentally outfit them for the baby carrier and the wedding tux turn off men. Richard says this gets so bad that women try to drag him into domestic supply stores like Babies R US, Ikea and the Pottery Barn to see if he is husband material. He has also been taken into department stores where he has been subtly directed into the wedding gown sections (where one girl actually made him try to pick out bridesmaid dresses with him) and past the jeweler counter where the engagement rings are kept.
Richard’s message to women nowadays would be to “Relax Ladies. It’s called DATING. A man will let you know if he wants to marry you. He goes, buys a ring, gets down on his knees (well sometimes), asks you and then puts a ring on your finger. Before that day happens we are not to assume anything (according to Richard.)
It is not something that you can convince a guy to do no matter how rich your daddy is. Richard really made me laugh with some of his comments especially when he started singing – “You can’t hurry love, you just have to wait.” He is also quite fond of walking around spouting that fresher cliché “What is wrong with you. He is just not that into you!”
Richard is also sick of seeing dating profiles that are way too predictable online. They all look like they have been scooped out of the same Dating for Dummies book. He said that he is sick of reading about how a woman loves long walks, swimming and going to the movies. He is also sick of the “I can go from hiking boots to high heels in a flash” or “I am as comfortable in velvet as I am in denim.” He is also sick of women writing how they like to play pool with the boys only to find out that they can’t play at all. Still, I did point out that when the woman can’t play it gives him an ideal opportunity to put his arm around her.
So is Richard looking for a marriage partner? Yes he is he just has not found the right girl online yet.
01/30/08: The Dentist Who Is A Sex Addict
What is it with dentists? Why are they all sex addicts? I have gone out with two dentists so far and had the most toxic experience with each.
The first one was this guy named Paul, who was an implantologist from Toronto with a thriving practice. He was quite a bit older than me and I knew he had kids but he told me he was divorced.
Phil and I go out to art openings and have fancy dinners and we have sex every which way is possible. Then after three weeks of I love you and passionate love making he just stops calling.
After a few civilized and then frantic calls to his office I then end up calling him at home. Instead of a call back I get an email saying that I had made too much of everything and that he was happy with his wife. This sent me into a depression for weeks on end. I probably never cried so much over a man as I did with this dentist Paul who I considered to be the love of my life.
I probably shouldn’t have opted to see yet another dentist but I was just so lonely. I had even been warned this one is a sex addict but I still did not control my impulses. He was also good looking, handsome and very rich. He was my second implantoligist and his name was Mark.
This guy also had a practice in Toronto and a woman who was his ex wife and secretary. He also had two girls from Somalia there that working as his assistants and he said that they were his daughters.
So what happens? After weeks of bliss and even a trip to Dubai for him to find better-heeled patients from the Arab World he invites me back to his house, which is supposed to be his own personal Shangri-la. They’re lying naked and making out with each other among the velvet cushions and Koi pond complete with splashing waterfalls are his ex wife and his two supposed daughters. He then told me that they were adopted and that is why he is allowed to have sex with them.
I got out of there but my reward was a punishing and brutal silence. I did not get an explanation, apology or even a begging to try it again.
In retrospect I realize that both of these dentists were real sex addicts. In fact I found out recently that foursome reason it is quite common in that profession. Apparently having lots of sex helps them boost their confidence and arrogance so they can get their jobs all day. It also helps them relieve all of the depression and tension that is apparently the result of looking inside someone’s mouth all day. In fact if you have a dentist sex addict story of some kind I would really like to hear about it.
The first one was this guy named Paul, who was an implantologist from Toronto with a thriving practice. He was quite a bit older than me and I knew he had kids but he told me he was divorced.
Phil and I go out to art openings and have fancy dinners and we have sex every which way is possible. Then after three weeks of I love you and passionate love making he just stops calling.
After a few civilized and then frantic calls to his office I then end up calling him at home. Instead of a call back I get an email saying that I had made too much of everything and that he was happy with his wife. This sent me into a depression for weeks on end. I probably never cried so much over a man as I did with this dentist Paul who I considered to be the love of my life.
I probably shouldn’t have opted to see yet another dentist but I was just so lonely. I had even been warned this one is a sex addict but I still did not control my impulses. He was also good looking, handsome and very rich. He was my second implantoligist and his name was Mark.
This guy also had a practice in Toronto and a woman who was his ex wife and secretary. He also had two girls from Somalia there that working as his assistants and he said that they were his daughters.
So what happens? After weeks of bliss and even a trip to Dubai for him to find better-heeled patients from the Arab World he invites me back to his house, which is supposed to be his own personal Shangri-la. They’re lying naked and making out with each other among the velvet cushions and Koi pond complete with splashing waterfalls are his ex wife and his two supposed daughters. He then told me that they were adopted and that is why he is allowed to have sex with them.
I got out of there but my reward was a punishing and brutal silence. I did not get an explanation, apology or even a begging to try it again.
In retrospect I realize that both of these dentists were real sex addicts. In fact I found out recently that foursome reason it is quite common in that profession. Apparently having lots of sex helps them boost their confidence and arrogance so they can get their jobs all day. It also helps them relieve all of the depression and tension that is apparently the result of looking inside someone’s mouth all day. In fact if you have a dentist sex addict story of some kind I would really like to hear about it.
01/27/08: Seducing With A Tomato Water Martini
Want to impress your next date. Try the latest rage - the Tomato Water Martini.
Tomato water can be described as being the essence of the tomato. It has been all the rage since Martha Stewart featured it on her show recently. Chefs on television are now busy including tomato water in all kinds of recipes. It is also used as a decorative drizzle on a plate.
You would think that tomato water would be red or pink but it is actually a pale yellow juice. It also a very strong smell that goes well with anything that goes well with tomatoes including olives, tomatoes and salads.
Tomato water is usually enhances with a bit of a salt. It is a gourmet item so it only needs a small amount of salt to become the base for summer cocktails and soups. You can also add them to pickle recipes to give them more of a nip.
Tomato water is great for making tomato water martinis and also for making richly flavored gazpachos and cucumber based soups. In fact the tomato water martini is also sometimes dubbed as the dirty martini. Usually these martinis are garnished with interesting things like caper berries or pickled tomatoes. For a different treat try making the tomato water martini with gin instead of vodka. Tomato martinis are becoming all the in the big fancy bars in New York, Los Angeles and Miami.
To make the tomato water, puree ripe tomatoes and place the mixture in triple-ply cheesecloth. Tie the cheesecloth together in a bundle Hang the bundle or let rest in a chinois, with a bowl resting underneath to catch the tomato drippings. Leave the puree to drain at room temperature overnight. Let it drip for as long as possible. The next morning, the liquid captured from the tomato bundle will be deeply flavored and aromatic. You can bottle this tomato water and put it in the fridge and use it to make great salad dressings or you can drizzle it on bread along with some olive oil. Don’t use tomato water that has been sitting all day unrefrigerated on the counter.
If you want your tomato water to turn out right make sure you make it in the manner just described. Don’t try to use some kind of press or blenders. Just manually chop up the tomatoes and bundle them and let them be. In a way the less bruising and manual handling done of the tomatoes themselves the better the tomato water will taste in the end.
Tomato water can be described as being the essence of the tomato. It has been all the rage since Martha Stewart featured it on her show recently. Chefs on television are now busy including tomato water in all kinds of recipes. It is also used as a decorative drizzle on a plate.
You would think that tomato water would be red or pink but it is actually a pale yellow juice. It also a very strong smell that goes well with anything that goes well with tomatoes including olives, tomatoes and salads.
Tomato water is usually enhances with a bit of a salt. It is a gourmet item so it only needs a small amount of salt to become the base for summer cocktails and soups. You can also add them to pickle recipes to give them more of a nip.
Tomato water is great for making tomato water martinis and also for making richly flavored gazpachos and cucumber based soups. In fact the tomato water martini is also sometimes dubbed as the dirty martini. Usually these martinis are garnished with interesting things like caper berries or pickled tomatoes. For a different treat try making the tomato water martini with gin instead of vodka. Tomato martinis are becoming all the in the big fancy bars in New York, Los Angeles and Miami.
To make the tomato water, puree ripe tomatoes and place the mixture in triple-ply cheesecloth. Tie the cheesecloth together in a bundle Hang the bundle or let rest in a chinois, with a bowl resting underneath to catch the tomato drippings. Leave the puree to drain at room temperature overnight. Let it drip for as long as possible. The next morning, the liquid captured from the tomato bundle will be deeply flavored and aromatic. You can bottle this tomato water and put it in the fridge and use it to make great salad dressings or you can drizzle it on bread along with some olive oil. Don’t use tomato water that has been sitting all day unrefrigerated on the counter.
If you want your tomato water to turn out right make sure you make it in the manner just described. Don’t try to use some kind of press or blenders. Just manually chop up the tomatoes and bundle them and let them be. In a way the less bruising and manual handling done of the tomatoes themselves the better the tomato water will taste in the end.
